So I did the only thing I could do to get started — I bought a dildo and then I read up as much as I could on how to use it. I realized that the first step was to get comfortable with the idea of having a dildo inside me. I had to overcome any fear, anxiety, or feelings of shame that I had surrounding the situation. I did this by talking to some of my friends about my curiosity and doing my best to normalize the situation.
Once I was ready, I knew that I had to learn the proper way to sit on a dildo. I started by wearing clothing that was extremely comfortable and loose. I wanted to avoid anything that would make the experience too intense or uncomfortable. I also had to find a position that made me feel the most relaxed and comfortable. I started off by sitting on the dildo while sitting in a chair crossed legged.
Eventually, I became comfortable with using the dildo while lying down. I found that was the best position for me because it allowed me to have the most control over the amount of pressure and speed I was applying to the dildo.
And then I started experimenting with different techniques. I found that using small, circular motions was the most enjoyable for me because it allowed me to feel the most pleasure and it also allowed me to stay in control. I also experimented with different speeds and pressures to see what I liked best.
The next step was to try different types of dildos. I found that using the larger and more realistic looking ones were much more pleasurable for me than the smaller ones. I also found that using ones that had a bit of texture on them was much more enjoyable. I also found that using a vibrating dildo was an altogether different experience and I highly recommend it.
I learned a lot from my exploration with dildos and discovered that there is no right or wrong way to do it. Everyone has different preferences and I learned that I had to find what worked best for me and embrace it.
It was also empowering to learn how to use a sex dolls toy and to gain confidence in my body. I found that by exploring my sexuality with a dildo, I was able to become more in tune with my body and to explore my pleasure in a safe and secure space.
My experience with dildos also made me appreciate my relationships with my partners even more. By experimenting with dildos, I was able to expand my understanding of what I liked sexually and so I was able to communicate that to my partners.
In conclusion, learning how to sit on a dildo was a great exploration into my own sexuality and it was an incredibly empowering experience. It allowed me to gain confidence in my body and to explore what I liked without any judgement or fear. It also was an eye-opening experience into my own pleasure and how I can bring that into my relationships with my partners as well.