Hey friend! I’ve been wanting to talk with you about something I’ve been trying – using a dildo to spice up my sex life with my husband. Some background – we’ve been married for three years and our sex life had been okay. Nothing wrong with it, just nothing overly exciting. We both decided it was time to get creative when it came to the bedroom.
The first step was getting used to the idea of using a sex toy. I admit, I felt a little uncomfortable and awkward at first. But I knew this could be a great way to have more fun together. We both agreed that a dildo was the perfect tool to reach our goal.
Now, figuring out exactly how to use the dildo took a little more effort. I’d never used one before and I wanted it to be a fun, positive experience. After doing some research I realized using lube was essential so I purchased a few different kinds. I also had to find a comfortable position for both of us.
Finally, the big moment came. Since it was my first time using a dildo I was a little nervous. But after I got over my apprehension I was ready to get the show started. I made sure to really take my time so I could get a feel for the toy and work myself up to different speeds and pressures.
I think what made the experience so great was that it felt like a real adventure. We weren’t just having sex in the traditional sense, we were exploring new ways to enjoy one another and make our pleasure deeper. Plus, it was fun to switch up the pace – sometimes we’d go slow, other times it was fast.
Overall, I was really pleased with our first foray into dildo sex. We both felt more comfortable with each other, and we were finally able to find a new way to be creative together in the bedroom. Plus, I felt more confident and empowered because I wasn’t afraid to play around and try new things.
Since then, our sex life has become more and more exciting. We’ve been experimenting with different positions, and we take turns pleasuring one another with the dildo. It’s definitely been one of the best ways to keep our relationship fresh and new.
To add to the excitement, we’ve explored different types of lube, different intensity settings, and different shapes and sizes of dildos. And sometimes, we like to upgrade our dildo sex game by pairing it with various sex toys like vibrators and handcuffs.
It’s amazing how much of a difference this one simple addition – a dildo – has made to our sex life. I’m so grateful that we made the decision to add a little pleasure to our bedroom routine. It’s definitely been well worth the effort.